This is a two fold question>

First one involves a young lady whom we will call M. She has yet again made accusations against my son and has initiated a restrainnig order against him and preventing him frmo seeing his son. This has been an ongoing issue with her as she has tried manytimes in the past to do this without success. She has liedon many occasions, and on one attempt at court tried to get her mother to do the same. My son and her were involved a long time ago, she is now married, he is not but sees his son every Tusday and e/o/ w.e. He has had to fight ever since he was born. She wants him to be completely out of his life. He is a good father and really loves his son.
My son was involved in another relationship that sadly ended.

However he has upcoming trial date in the courts and recently his name appeared in the community newspaper (WITH BLASTING DETAILS MAY I ADD). This young lady lives in another town 14 miles from here. She took this opportunity to go to the court in the town in which he lives andget a restraining order ainst him accuinsg him of abuse. On the day in question, he was nowhere near her ( as he was held at the polie station on one day and then at the court house the next., then transferred to the N.B. H.O.C. until much later in the day. ( the date being 8/26). Did I mention that Wednesday is the day that he p/u his son for visitation. They meet at the local grocery store ( as mandated by the court) in a neural location. When he did not show up on that day, she text him to find out where he was? Not knowng the sitation, my son just told her " More problems with hisex" and left it at that.

However two days after the incident andafter his name appeared in the paper a policeman showed up at our house at 10:15 at night wiht a restraining order from her ordering him away from her , their son, no contact, etc........
Now my son has thishanging over his head aswell as the other issue he has to go to court for.

I am sick of tired of all the harrassment, innuendos and want this all to stop. My son is being made to look like a monster ( and he is not). We were all surprised when he got that restraining order as he and this young lady just conversed the night before. My grandson is 9 years old and now must face this again with his mother. I am trying to stay neutral but it is becoming a nightmare for me and mu husband b/c this is yet another charge being filed against my son. This will not look too good when he has to go to court in September for the other charge unrelated to this.

I do not know what I can do? What is his recourse and can he file a harrassment suit against thevery people who are doing it against him? Oh should I say that he is now so afraid to go anywhere that he isconstantly looking over his shoulder.

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Is there anything we can do to stop this? It is a living nightmare!!!!!!!!