loop holes?

[krystle23]

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months but his house got raided and he was found with drugs.
i didnt have any drugs on me and my legal address is at my moms house not there
im getting charged with the same charges and i have the same breaches
i wanted to know if there is any way to get around not being able to see eachother
i know if i was pregnant i would be able to but is there anything else?
you would think we need eachother to get through this and help eachother but the cops said break up... ? is there anything... i really need something here....

[Romanice]

Take the cops advise, you are judged by who you hang out with. The court will look at a break-up as you rejecting his lifestyle. If you continue to see him you are not only accepting his lifestyle but you are part of it and therefore implicated. The judge would find it hard to believe in the first place that you knew nothing about the drugs so it is up to you to show that you reject the lifestyle. You will be judged on your actions from here on in. Frankly staying with the guy is bad news, even if you escape charges this time you will always be a suspect.

The policeman/woman that talked to you probably realizes you had nothing to do with it and is trying to help you out. Don't underestimate the severity of drug charges they have the potential of ruining your life. When you have children and say your child ran out on to the street they can ask to see your criminal record, with a drug charge they may assume you were drugged up and so decide to take your children away. I am fighting exactly that battle myself, children gone for four months and counting. You need to be squeeky clean right now, show you have a different community of friends that are good people, go to church and get involved, you will need references. Send your boyfriend an email indicating that you are terminating the relationship due to his undisclosed drug possession. I know this sounds dramatic but you must run not walk away from this association. The circumstantial evidence will kill your case in court. Oh yea what ever you do GET A LAWYER NOW. Good luck.